Fit guys dating

13 Apr

Another lady I know is fat and happy to stay that way. She likes big men because she wants someone to share her lifestyle and interests, which in no way involves anything to do with being fit.

In her words, "I don't need anyone harping on me about my weight. I like eating and I hate exercise and I'm not going to change for anybody." (or something along those lines anyway) She ended up marrying a big man and they both seem happy together. He doesn't have to have six pack abs, or be able to run a marathon.

But I certainly don't want to see him eating greasy pizza and fast food every day while never getting off the couch.

I just need him to be aware of his health and know how to maintain it. In my mind there's a big difference between healthy and fit.

Large dudes will frequently lament that their size automatically disqualifies them from dating – they believe that there is simply no way a woman could possibly like somebody who’s body isn’t rippled and shiny like a buttered ear of corn. Kevin Smith, for all of his fashion sins that I will get into in a second, is happily married with a lovely wife and daughter. It’s easy to forget this when the TV and magazines are showing you nothing but image after image of cut, veiny men with swimmers builds with women draped all over them like fur stoles, but women actually like a far wider range of body types than we’d think.

Ask five women what their ideal male build is and you’ll get six different answers.

Confession time: After a long, drawn-out, and painful breakup, I have found myself recently single again.

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At 250 lbs I was invisible to women, but now at a leaner 190 I am noticeable, and you can see it in the way women look and smile at you. So from someone who evolved from fat to fit in a very short time I definitely say yes, MOST women seem to prefer a fit guy, at least on first sight.

I dont really pay attention to other people just do my thing.

I am comfortable wearing them, even have pictures on my profile, just latly I have been a little concerned, that people can actually tell my size. Don't worry though, it would be obvious to you if women were checking out the size of your package.

However, I know some women who prefer unfit men for the following reasons: A former coworker preferred men who were less attractive than her.

She thought she was not very attractive because she was slightly overweight and would only date men who were more overweight as her because she was afraid a better looking/thinner man would not really be happy with her and would want a more attractive woman and leave her as soon as he found one.