Dating for sci fi nerds

12 Apr

You can bond over your love of video games or Star Wars or Dr. To start with: not everybody’s a geek about the same things to the same level.

You may both be Star Wars fans, but there are worlds of difference between “bought the Blu-Rays”, “own Hong Kong bootleg DVDs of the original trilogy’s theatrical releases” and “speaking fluent Mando’a, decorating your house in wall-to-wall standees, action figures, Lego sets and lightsabers”.

Instead, focus on his intelligence, faithfulness, and other great traits.

Moreover, while nerd-dom is now mainstream (even cool), it wasn't always this way and many nerds grew up suffering at the hands of dumb jocks or b*tchy mean girls.

At Mrs Mary: When my brother was 1 or so he was in day care where he had a Mrs Mary, our father's sister was also Mary and soon became At Mrs Mary (He couldn't say Aunt).

Sometimes you've got to take a break and unplug the laptop - so you can take it to the coffee shop to (pretend to) work.

Or maybe you need a way to lug all your books around to and from class.

Thus, when a woman decides to give a nerd a chance, she often finds herself in uncharted territory.

He's smart, a little shy, quirky, and he loves science fiction, online gaming, comic books, or other related pursuits. While nerds often make great partners (in fact, many of us in the dating business consider them the unsung heroes of the single male demographic), women usually tend to overlook them.